Gloria focuses on how much we affect one another on a daily basis, something to which we may be totally oblivious. Coaching can help raise our awareness and enable us to see the impact we have on others and how we can change our behaviour for the better.
Or maybe the question could be how did you make someone feel yesterday? Whichever way you ask it, the question is something we should ask ourselves every day. We are living in strange times and impacting one another’s lives quite significantly. We must look at how we have participated in whatever way on our environment and our fellow human beings.
I am one for looking at what I may have brought to the table or what part I have played in any difficult situation or relationship. There are some things about it that might be quite clear to me and there are some that are unclear and even mysterious. I welcome all, even though some of it leaves me slightly unsettled. At this moment in time, I feel a stirring as if something is about to be birthed. It scares me as the mystery of it fills me with dread, anticipation and excitement. However I am deeply trusting and invested in my process in service to humanity, so I go forward with openness and great joy!
I am very clear that at this particular time in my life, I have a responsibility to make the best, well thought out choices that will enhance my life and continue to make the lives of others better. I must draw a line under things that will detract from this goal. Sometimes we hold on to hope and faith in things which are actually delusions. These are simply fixed ideas that are usually false, that people hold on to tenaciously even when they have overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I am more conscious of my own mortality after the past year with the pandemic so I feel a certain urgency about asking certain questions.
I continue to me humbled on a daily basis through the different paths my work takes me. We can all be a conduit, that vehicle, that healthy enabler to someone if we choose to be. It doesn’t have to be about money which is sadly how we measure everything. Don’t get me wrong I want to be as comfortable as the next person, and money can give you comfort and some better options but I have found there is something much more powerful and gratifying that gives you lasting joy and fulfilment and that is making someone feel better, saving someone’s life (figuratively or literarily). It has been my lives work and will continue to be for as long as I am able. How have you made some one feel yesterday, today? Also how are you making things better? Remember however you effect or impact on the universe, on your fellow man, has a way to find its way back to you in one form or another.
